My name is Bobby, I served in the military for 8 years, would have done more but that’s where the sadness of my life starts….
I married into deception, when my gf told me she was pregnant with my baby. We got married on January 2 to ensure my sons birth on March 6, was going to be paid for by the military.
(I know my oldest is not truly my biological son, but has never felt any different feeling from me, he is my son)
Little did I know that after we married and before my son was even born she had already began cheating on me, but I thought of my child first and lived unhappily with it.
It was rough missing the birth of my son, because I got deployed, missing holidays and birthdays. All the while I knew my wife was sleeping around, with him home.
So a few years later, we had ups and down about her faithfulness, and she is pregnant again( we were actually trying to have a baby this time) this little boy looks just like me as a kid lol.
Not even 6months old, I caught her giving a guy oral sex in my living room, while kids were in the house, and after I caught her. She phoned her mother saying I beat her, I was attacking the children, and all sorts of stuff.
So her mother drives from East Texas to California, to come save her daughter.
So the day came where she took the kids, to go live with her mother. And her mother got to see, while I was in the front yard holding my kids and crying, she was two houses down getting fucked before the long trip.
Before she had left she had sold most on my belongings, including items handed down to me from my father, and drained my entire savings $20k.
I was too depressed to work, crashing on couches. And found out I was being accused of theft from the government, I didn’t have the will to care to fight it at this point in my life. I later found out one of the guys that let me rent a room, was someone she was screwing and set me up, by putting items in my room while I was working and called the military police.
So I was kicked out of the military because of her, and sentenced to military prison for a little bit.
After I was released I decided to try to get my life on track a bit, I met a beautiful girl, found a job in her town with the best boss I could ever ask for.
Think we’re getting better, even happier. And then she cheats on me, over the course of 4 years, she cheated 3 times. And I didn’t want anymore of it, I’m still great friends with her dad who is also an amazing friend.
So now, I’m living at my job in a trailer, which wasn’t bad. And my friend tells me about this girl, so I said ok I’ll meet her.
Well she moved from Washington, to come meet me and ended up living with me at the very start, but was good at first until……
You guessed it, she cheated on me as well, so my dumbass keeps forgiving, and she only cheats with guys from her jobs, so well she got fired after the first cheat, got a new job…..
And cheated again, at this point I’m still stupid enough to try to get her back, we got back together and was going to work on the relationship, at this time I was moving to Texas to be with my children (because not even after few months, their mom left them to be raised by their grandmother, and hasn’t came back yet)
So I brought my gf to Texas with me, and things weren’t too bad (she didn’t have a job yet) about a year of being here we got pregnant, I was starting to trust her again and things were looking up.
So my 3rd son is born, first one I’ve gotten to be there for the birth even, I’m overjoyed with happiness. Once he got about 9 months old she was going back to work to help with the bills.
So here we are now, my son is 11mos old, and she cheated on me yet again with a coworker. And I swallowed my pride and offered to work it out again with counseling, for the sake of the baby.
Straight up NO, so here I am today, depressed again, worrying about my sons cause even my older two got attached to her as a mother, and she is more worried about drugs and running the streets instead of home with her children…..
